I just started seeing a guy that overly enjoys getting me off in public places, like under the table at dinner or in the back of the grocery store. Should I love it just as much as he does or stop taking his calls?
Dear Georgina Michael,
Here’s the deal. Being with a sexual deviant can be the best thing ever or the worst thing ever. I’ve experienced both. There are tons of guys (and girls for that matter) out there who want to stick a lollipop on the end of a power drill, shove it up your ass, turn it on, and then watch as you discover how many licks it takes to get to the center of the tushy-pop. The question is: are YOU into it?
Bottom line: don’t do something you hate, just because he likes it. There is nothing worse. Let him know if all the public fucking gives you the willies.
But…if it turns you on, or doesn’t bother you either way, then let him have his fun. There’s nothing wrong with engaging in an activity that may not be your cup of tea, but makes him happy and think you’re a goddess. Just know your boundaries and stick to them. It will make for an overall better relationship if you keep it hot in the sack/store/car/gym/movies/doctor’s office/bathroom/restaurant.