Dear Babe,
Everyone thinks I’m a slut just because I got drunk and had sex with like five guys who all kind of hang out in the same group of friends. But they were all hot. What do I do?
Love,
K****
PS – I love you
Everyone I Know,
The question here is simple: does being a slut make you a slut? It may seem like this query would elicit an obvious response, but the answer isn’t necessarily ‘Yes, you fucking moron, yes!’
From the sounds of it, you are kind of a slut, but who really cares? I for one do not, and be honest, do you? So, some of your prudish friends went a little mob-mentality on you and it feels like you have a DO NOT TOUCH sign wrongfully taped to your vagina, but they’ll get over it. Trust. I say you just start hanging out with a different group of friends. Fucking five guys who happen to be buddies, or whatever, was not your best idea, but I’m over this guilt thing that we’re supposed to feel after having fun/whoring it out.
No one got hurt. You’re not pregnant. Everyone just needs to grow up and that’s not really your problem, or mine, so what are we doing here?